Abstract：Anxiety situation questionnaires were used to explore the effect of similar experiences and cues on empathy, the research aimed to study the reason of those experiences’ less anxiety empathy and the way to improve their empathy. The result indicated that: (1) People with similar experience felt less anxiety empathy than those experiencing. (2) People with similar experience in the specific cues condition felt more empathy than those in the general cues condition. (3) In the specific cues condition, people with similar experience felt more empathy than people without similar experience. In conclusion, people with similar experience in the general situation felt less empathy than others, however their empathy would be improved in the specific cues situation.